Think Of Others First. 2016-04-06

Please think of others first. Please honor the wishes of others first before your own wishes, even if their wishes are bad or not the best.

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Please try your best to emphasize on grace, forgiveness, mercy, towards others, instead of an outpour of revenge, criminal justice, as vengeance is Mine saith thee Lord of Hosts.

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Too often in my life, I have fought with people. Sometimes, I stop talking. I become too serious, sad, down, depressed, bipolar, during protests or during certain times when certain things happen.

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I try very hard to help people since I was about 8 years old or so in the USA back in the year 1993 when Bill Clinton became president.

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However, I try too hard to beat truth & good morality a& stuff into people. By doing so, I lose friends, lovers, friendships, connections, relationships, networking, opportunities, & so much more.

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Stop being so much of a Scrooge. Stop being so mean to other people. This is a message that is being written by me & for me. This message is to me & I need to think about this more, I, Joey Arnold Oatmeal, as I get older, even as I am 31 years old now in Vietnam since 2012.

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I think of myself as a bad man. I try to do good but I get lost with trying to get people to see what I see. This is bad because my methodology is so bad. My intentions or whatever can be good but how I do things may not be as productive, efficient, effective, or whatever. That is the bad part.

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I should give people more freedom. Let people make bad decisions more. If people are not consistent, then that is their business. I should not always become a bad person when others become bad. I need to continue doing what is good and stuff.

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Please do good as much as you can. Find ways to help people in as many ways as you can. Try not to punish people at all or at least not too much when they do bad things in big ways or even in minor details.

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Pick your battles wisely and pick them less often. Stop fighting with people so much & try harder to live at peace with all the people you can. Be more nice and peaceful to them. Give to them your time and resources and services and money and wisdom and advice and as much as you can and please do not tax them too much if their morality is not perfect or if their logic is not as thorough as yours or whatever.

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Wait for the right time to bring up the bad things to them if need be & be careful when you confront, discipline, discuss, debate, argue, talk about, things, problems, dealing with conflict resolution, in how to do things right, in legal, moral, ethical, cultural, logical, or other kinds of things.

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You see people do something stupid. Everyday, we do. But please don't become stupid when trying to get them to see that they are stupid. They may be able to see that they are stupid, but too often they are too blind and too deaf and stuff.

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Wait and be patient and maybe you will get the time and opportunity to talk about it to them and you may need others for help or protection or advice like parents, teachers, pastors, counselors, leaders, friends, family, or even others from support groups or volunteering agencies or organizations or clubs or what have you.

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They may give you something & allow you to have a gift or present for free for a year, & it may become yours or it may be a present, or you may not know, but then they may ask for it back or just take it.

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Let them take it. Don't talk about it and try to forget about it. Write it down in your journal and maybe you can ask them some questions or try to tell them your feelings about it later that day or maybe in a year or something. Be polite, be simple, & try to tell them the logic, the morality, or whatever. You can say that gifts are not loans. It is not a trade. It does not require compensation because you're not a store, unless if you are. They are not a store, unless if they are. You can talk about the different things that they should think about. Maybe they can learn something. You can ask why they are taking something back that they gave to you? Ask some questions & try to be ok with their answers & try to drop it even if they are thinking badly or wrongly. Maybe they will realize that they are wrong someday & come back to you about it someday.

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Sometimes, we are wrong & we need to learn from them as well. It is hard to say & it all depends on the issues & everything at hand. Please be more nice & smile more. Learn from the past but don't try too hard to make people into your own clones. You may want people to learn all the great things from you that you know but they need to go through their own journeys to get there on their own. Be patient. Have fun. Give people grace over justice, joy over circumstances. Smile more & be ready to serve others because life is for service.

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2016-04-06 Wednesday 9 PM APN HCM JSA
Joey Arnold
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