Snow Massage 2016-04-07 Thu 1 PM APN HCM JSA...

I didn't give Zizi a massage Wednesday morning & now I want to say sorry. I was not mad at her but was mad at my life and other things but may have treated her badly. This letter was written to tell her that she is interesting and to tell her happy birthday and the best of luck for her life and some good things like that. I am still there to help people when I can.

Think Of Others First. 2016-04-06

Please think of others first. Please honor the wishes of others first before your own wishes, even if their wishes are bad or not the best.

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Please try your best to emphasize on grace, forgiveness, mercy, towards others, instead of an outpour of revenge, criminal justice, as vengeance is Mine saith thee Lord of Hosts.

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Too often in my life, I have fought with people. Sometimes, I stop talking. I become too serious, sad, down, depressed, bipolar, during protests or during certain times when certain things happen.

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I try very hard to help people since I was about 8 years old or so in the USA back in the year 1993 when Bill Clinton became president.

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However, I try too hard to beat truth & good morality a& stuff into people. By doing so, I lose friends, lovers, friendships, connections, relationships, networking, opportunities, & so much more.

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Stop being so much of a Scrooge. Stop being so mean to other people. This is a message that is being written by me & for me. This message is to me & I need to think about this more, I, Joey Arnold Oatmeal, as I get older, even as I am 31 years old now in Vietnam since 2012.

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I think of myself as a bad man. I try to do good but I get lost with trying to get people to see what I see. This is bad because my methodology is so bad. My intentions or whatever can be good but how I do things may not be as productive, efficient, effective, or whatever. That is the bad part.

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I should give people more freedom. Let people make bad decisions more. If people are not consistent, then that is their business. I should not always become a bad person when others become bad. I need to continue doing what is good and stuff.

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Please do good as much as you can. Find ways to help people in as many ways as you can. Try not to punish people at all or at least not too much when they do bad things in big ways or even in minor details.

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Pick your battles wisely and pick them less often. Stop fighting with people so much & try harder to live at peace with all the people you can. Be more nice and peaceful to them. Give to them your time and resources and services and money and wisdom and advice and as much as you can and please do not tax them too much if their morality is not perfect or if their logic is not as thorough as yours or whatever.

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Wait for the right time to bring up the bad things to them if need be & be careful when you confront, discipline, discuss, debate, argue, talk about, things, problems, dealing with conflict resolution, in how to do things right, in legal, moral, ethical, cultural, logical, or other kinds of things.

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You see people do something stupid. Everyday, we do. But please don't become stupid when trying to get them to see that they are stupid. They may be able to see that they are stupid, but too often they are too blind and too deaf and stuff.

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Wait and be patient and maybe you will get the time and opportunity to talk about it to them and you may need others for help or protection or advice like parents, teachers, pastors, counselors, leaders, friends, family, or even others from support groups or volunteering agencies or organizations or clubs or what have you.

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They may give you something & allow you to have a gift or present for free for a year, & it may become yours or it may be a present, or you may not know, but then they may ask for it back or just take it.

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Let them take it. Don't talk about it and try to forget about it. Write it down in your journal and maybe you can ask them some questions or try to tell them your feelings about it later that day or maybe in a year or something. Be polite, be simple, & try to tell them the logic, the morality, or whatever. You can say that gifts are not loans. It is not a trade. It does not require compensation because you're not a store, unless if you are. They are not a store, unless if they are. You can talk about the different things that they should think about. Maybe they can learn something. You can ask why they are taking something back that they gave to you? Ask some questions & try to be ok with their answers & try to drop it even if they are thinking badly or wrongly. Maybe they will realize that they are wrong someday & come back to you about it someday.

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Sometimes, we are wrong & we need to learn from them as well. It is hard to say & it all depends on the issues & everything at hand. Please be more nice & smile more. Learn from the past but don't try too hard to make people into your own clones. You may want people to learn all the great things from you that you know but they need to go through their own journeys to get there on their own. Be patient. Have fun. Give people grace over justice, joy over circumstances. Smile more & be ready to serve others because life is for service.

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2016-04-06 Wednesday 9 PM APN HCM JSA
Joey Arnold
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Paradoxes 2016-03-29 Tuesday MD NH Q1 HCM

In class with my 2 students, a math teacher & his like niece in law or something, at McDonald's Nguyen Hue Q.1, we talked about some paradoxes which she isn't much of a fan of being only about 15 years old and he being about 30 years old.
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Outline of paradoxes discussed today:

Turtle Rabbit speed catch up inability if the turtle always moves forward then how can the rabbit catch but he can but it seems not possible but is but isn't

Crocodile question eat or no eat but if right then no eat but he will but will not but promises not to but you are right that he will but promised not to but must but cannot

Prisoner surprise execution was thought not to happen as he justifies it not to happen on weekends and not Friday and then not Thursday either, or Wed, Tue, and finally not Monday, but they end up maybe killing him on one of those days and that would surprise him

Boy travels back and kills his grandpa before the birth of his father which may split the timeline like that of the Terminator or Back to the Future where he kisses his mom

Never say never

Everything will change

The more I know the less I know

The more I know the more I do not know

I want to know and do not want to know













Paradoxes 2016-03-29 Tuesday MD NH Q1 HCM
Joey Arnold

Easter 2016-03-27

My normal routine for the past 2 months or so
since late January 2016 revolved around Anna and her family. I have
known Vietnamese Anna, first on Tagged where I saw her playing piano
& singing in her Youtube videos, & then I met her & her
mother in June or so 2013 and we became like friends or something but
only friends and I was also her teacher but she normally says I'm a
friend and not a teacher and her mother started talking to me more
this year. Her brother does not talk to me except maybe a few words a
few times. Her sister began talking to me much more this year and
began calling me monkey and then ugly mouse. About a week ago, I
began giving her, Sisi, Anna's older sister, foot massages and that
is nice. Sisi is turning 33 on April 2nd & had an abusive
boyfriend. He or maybe another boyfriend had money & would give
her money, like $500/month but then stopped and she broke up him or
something because no money. They say goodbye.

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Sisi likes money and is taking care of her mom
and Anna because Anna is finishing high school now as she is 21 years
old but had to go back because she was in a bike accident a few years
ago that damaged her brain. Sisi is also helping their divorced
mother who is about 57 years old & is getting older. The brother
is about 28 and he was working at an arcade place and then at an
amusement park pagoda in Q.9 HCM. He is ok. Sisi worries about her
sister & mom and works several jobs to take care of them. Anna
got married & will go to Canada in 2017 probably & the mother
wants to return to more travel. Mother has visited like France and
speaks some French.

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For Easter 2016, I woke up & ate & was
on my laptop looking at Trump videos, Info Wars, things about the
Illuminati, the Rothschild family, the NWO New World Order & I
was on social media and looking at my mom's emails about the Easter
Bunny and before about how root canals are abd and I was just doing
normal things like that and stuff I normally do as Joey Arnold and
stuff.

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Sisi comes home & asks for a foot massage. I
give one to her. Anna begins to yell at me and pour water at me in
the evening & her mother took her out to cool off and to relax.
Anna was telling me how people hate me because I am shy or don't talk
much or dance crazy or pushed her and how I act or look crazy and
stuff and she has said these things before and she has hit me and
pour ice water or the ice bucket challenge on me before. At 1 AM or
so that night she returned and was still attacking me verbally like
she was possessed by Satan & she was saying I am 32 years old
even tho I'm 31.

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But back to that evening, Sisi went to sing &
came back about 8 PM & told me to go back to the USA. Sisi, &
Anna, & others tell me this sometimes. Sisi talked about how bad
Vietnam is and how perfect America is. Or how better America is. She
wanted me to marry her to take her to America and then she could
divorce me and find money or people or men with money & go after
them like gold diggers. She always says how much she loves money. She
wants me to help her by giving her money, which I already gave her
and her family about $1,000 USD or more this year alone plus my time
& services of on-demand non-stop service around the clock for the
past 3 months or more not counting the previous 3 years too. She
wants me to find her a man that can take her to America. She also
wants $200 for her birthday Saturday. She wants me to contact my
family and get more money and stuff. I normally say no to her and yet
she continues to ask and say these things and people generally do say
certain things to me again and again but I tend to not compromise or
I am closed minded or smart or something. I was sleeping near her.
But it is a small house & I am just saying that I was laying down
on the floor and was by myself. Another person was nearby resting as
well. But Sisi loves money and not men.

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I write this because I want to remember this day
and some of the details of this day. I may like Sisi but I am not
trying to date her or anything and she may not want it either and
they tend to think it is bad if I don't make enough money and stuff.
I am Christian and she is Buddhist and that is a problem.

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Sometimes, I feel like a slave. I get emotional.
I am very empathetic, sympathetic, intuitive, emotional, spiritual,
bipolar, and stuff. I feel good and bad emotions all of the time. I
think a lot about the past, present, and future, and juggle around
them so much.

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Sisi like made me cry or something and the last
time I cried in front of people was at the Leaf Pagoda at the end of
2013 or beginning of 2014 when they were being mean to me and then
being nice to me through good things and bad things. It's a long
story and it is confusing.

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Sisi is a kind of girl that I like and I kind of
like and don't at the same time and I admire things about her and
these different things jerk my emotions until I cry. She was being
cute and she makes me smile and stuff and my tears were of sadness
and joy.

2016-03-27 Sunday Easter Day

Written on Monday 7 AM

Joey Arnold APN HCM

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Sunday Night Dinner 2016-03-13

I had dinner with my Vietnamese family, Anna, mother Loan, & sister Sisi, outside at a table at a restaurant in maybe Phu Nhuan or close to Go Vap on the big street that goes to that golden state bridge that goes to Thu Duc.
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We talked about how Sisi loves money and I should give her more. We see a man with a retarded boy walk by to beg for money. This is normal in countries like this where people beg for money and they sometimes sell lottery tickets or food or toys or candy or something. Singers walk by from store to store and from house to house in these cities asking for money while singing and sometimes selling stuff as well. There was a male singer and then a female singer. I didn't bring my laptop and mother drove me over to play pool near Bui Vien and I saw girls but tried not to look at them too much and tried not to be distracted by the desire of sex and stuff because I got work to do and there are things I believe in that I must continue to fight for. I have projects and things I work on for over 20 years since the age of ten years old in the year 1995 in the United States and also since the year 2012 in Vietnam.
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Mother talks about how people work hard to be happy and that is what matters most and she asked if I agree or understand and I said no and I wanted to say more but she only knows some English. I gestured my thoughts that I believe that joy and eternal things are more important than temporary happiness. Me and mom went to play pool and then for street coffee and then came back home about 2 AM.



Sunday Night Dinner
2016-03-14 Sunday 6 - 9 PM APN HCM
Joey Arnold

Random Dates...

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2009-06-14 Sunday 1 PM: pizza lunch with my Agape church at Bellagios Pizza, 1742 SW Jefferson, Portland, Oregon, USA. http://GimmeGrub.com. Saw the following people or church people: Karissa (not Sparkle), Lorence who plays soccer & is black, Gerry or Jerry, Geraldine who thanked me for a comment I made during the service I think; also Nicole who I helped during children church that day. In the morning, also saw pastor Ron Clark, Whitney, maybe a Kathy who has Bible studies at 8334 N. Pacific, PDX; , Eddie, Allen or Allan (not my cousin), Kyle who's wife died I he said (not my neighbor Kyle Vanderzanden from my childhood years). When I was living at 414
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2009-06-27 Saturday 1 PM: Quest Hike to a waterfall towards Mount Hood past Portland, Oregon, USA: Nicholas Littlejohn, old lady that I would talk to

2013-06-16: transfer of 4,000,000 VND between me and a friend I met online & in Hanoi who also took me to Hoa Binh and Thanh Hoa. First, I gave her this money and she later gave it back some months later I think.